What would we create if nothing held us back?
The philosophy behind the Fearless Club
Fear is anything that limits us from achieving our dreams.
Anything that holds us back from being our best selves, from realising our potential, from achieving our dreams and living the life we love is a form of fear. Whether we recognise it as the feeling of ‘being afraid’ or whether it speaks to us in the form of our thoughts, our emotions, our habits, social norms, our worries, concerns or reasons, there is a fundamental fear script © that influences our everyday decisions and choices, our words and actions, even our thoughts and emotions.
Becoming aware of this dynamic and understanding how our fear seeks to make us ‘viable’ but in fact distances us from the people, results and life that we would love, along with an insight into our ‘true selves’, our gifts, our purpose, our joy and our impact in the world frees us up to create a fulfilling and rewarding life without fear.
We cannot go beyond our fears if we do not understand them.
Why fear? We cannot freely create a life we would love if we do not understand how our fears compel us to think, feel and act in order to fulfil our deep-seated unconscious fear scripts, and thus keep us from that very goal.
No matter how much we ignore or fight our fears, if we do not understand the unconscious dynamics at play, our fears will continue to direct us and limit us from our true potential. Awareness and understanding of our fears free us up to create what we love.
A life without fear is not lived by having no fear, but by being aware of our own unique ‘cocktail of fears’ (which are natural and make us all human) and choosing to live a life that is not directed by our fears.
Beyond our fears lies our greatness.
When we go beyond our fears we create something greater than ourselves. Our purpose, our calling, our impact, our contribution comes to life. Any great creation has been the result of going forward despite the fear, doubts, uncertainties, emotional pain and ‘rational reasons’ that our voices of fear speak to us through.
A fearless life is not lived by never experiencing fear, but in understanding all the ways in which fear comes up for us, learning to discern what we would truly love from what our fears tell us to settle for, and training ourselves to take inspired action in favour of our true vision. Realising the great power within us allows us to create great results within the world. And more often than not, a little inspiration from others’ stories and journeys goes a long way in helping us realise what’s possible and what we are truly capable of.
We create best when we come together.
We are often inspired to create our best results when we are held by a community that cheers us on, is willing to support and co-create with us, and is loving enough to show us when we can do better.
The Fearless Club started as a space where I could share my journey and learnings with other people on a similar journey to grow and create the lives they love, whom I could perhaps inspire, support and serve in living their own powerful, fearless lives through a safe, confidential, connected and inspiring community space. Having a community of people on a shared journey with me has, in fact, inspired me to create some of my best results.
Whilst the Fearless Club now reaches far corners of the world and continues to grow every month, it remains very personal to me. The sense of coming together to share, express, learn and grow, and just be ourselves remains one of the hallmarks of this community. We support each other through the many spaces to talk, learn and grow, and we celebrate each other as we continue to create the lives we love.
What can you expect in the Fearless Club?
Content & Resources
I share some of my deepest and most personal content within the Fearless Club. From personal writing and articles not shared anywhere else, including thought-provoking insights, inspiring questions, and simple steps to go beyond fear. In this space, I also share the books, movies, people and quotes that inspire me personally, as well as personal stories and pictures that vulnerably narrate my own journey to live fearlessly.
Members also have access to hands-on learning resources developed exclusively for the Fearless Club, as well as a library of original audio/ video content. Members receive personal emails from me directly to their inbox (typically once a week), are invited to access and interact with additional (shorter) content in our Facebook Group, and also have access to the vast library of exclusive content and resources in the Members Area.
Community
Fearless Club members are men and women of diverse backgrounds from around the world, at various stages of leadership in their careers, all on a shared journey to lead powerful lives and create a positive impact in the world in turn.
I am always inspired by the stories, experiences and learnings shared within the group. Our members are what makes Club, and the Fearless Club is a space to interact within a like-minded community of people and learn from each other.
And it is also a space to make a difference to someone else just by being you. In my many years of experience, every time we share what we have learnt or what we are going through, we inspire someone in turn who resonates with our dreams and even our fears, struggles and limitations.
One of the qualities that make the Fearless Club unique is the sense of comfort, intimacy and belonging to a community where we are each safe to just be us, free to explore our own paths, and supported in expressing ourselves fully and creating all that we would love.
Social Events
The monthly Fearless Club Coffee Chats are popular events that offer a chance for members to get together, relax and chat in a safe, confidential, and connected space at the end of each month.
I am often told how invigorating and inspiring our members find this space and how much they look forward to it at the end of every month. We always leave with a fresh perspective, knowing that we are surrounded and supported by friends from around the world.
I also host special one-off or celebratory events from time to time, for example, our Fearless Club anniversary celebrations! As we grow, and as travel becomes possible again, I am always open to planning new events in line with what our members would love!
Learning & Development
NEW! Every month, I host learning and development events on a range of topics (from psychology to management, public speaking to art!) delivered by guest speakers and yours truly.
These are often short ‘lunch and learn’ type seasons, informative and interactive webinars, deep-dive ‘mini-trainings’ and weekend workshops.
Our external guests are people within my diverse network who have made a mark in the world and have powerful lessons to share from their own lives and career journeys.
The Fearless Club also provides a platform for our members to share their talents and expertise with the community in service of others, as well as for the joy of expressing their gifts and talents and as a development forum to fulfil their wider potential.
"The Fearless Club gives me the opportunity to reflect and connect with people who share similar views but with different perspectives, based on their own unique experience. There's always something to learn and this inspires me in taking my own journey further."
Oliver Carr, Head of IT Security, Risk & Compliance, The Adecco Group
Frequently asked questions:
Who is the Fearless Club for?
“Courage is not the absence of fear. It is the presence of a love that is stronger.”
The Fearless Club is a space for anyone who wants to create a life, results, relationships and impact in line with what they love.
Our members are ready to create a greater, happier, more connected life than ever before, and they are willing to look at their own fears and barriers and go beyond them.
Currently, we accept memberships from people above 18 years of age. However, if you are a younger person who would like to join or a parent who would love to share this work with your child, please get in touch.
Why is membership free?
My vision of the Fearless Club is a place where people from all walks of life around the world can come together and create an inspiring, supportive and creative community. Our members include people at every stage of their career, from students to senior leaders. And we all learn from and inspire each other.
Whilst being a part of the Fearless Club is a conscious decision, I want it to be an easy decision, with every reason to join!
This is a space where there is no financial barrier to learning and development.
Anyone who wants to join us is welcome, and I want it to be a ‘no-brainer’: if you want to join, come!
Why do I have to sign up to the Members Area?
Being a member of the Fearless Club is a conscious decision to participate, learn and grow, and also to contribute to the learning journey of others.
By choosing to create a membership, each member of the Fearless Club makes an active commitment to embark on a further journey of learning, growth and transformation.
Some of the content shared in the Members Area includes confidential conversations between members. Whilst we make a shared commitment to be vulnerable in our fears and supported in our power, we also agree to respect theprivate nature of these discussions, which are only shared between and for members. It is my commitment to provide a safe and confidential space where all members feel safe to express themselves fully within a trusted community of like-minded individuals.
Signing up to become a member signals this shared bond and commitment to serve and be served in living in our power. In confidence and support.
Can I sign up on behalf of someone else?
Yes, it is possible to sign up on behalf of a colleaugue, friend or family member, but please ensure you have their consent to sign them up and share their details with us.
Do you provide corporate or group memberships?
I am happy to discuss potentially creating packages suited as team / corporate perks. Please drop me a line at Stuti@alifewithoutfear.org and let's have a conversation about the best option for your needs.
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